Don’t knw how to start this but recently I got to know dat I’m 5-6 weeks pregnant.first of all dis was an overwhelming but shocking news to me.coz I’ve ‘PCOS’. n my recent gynoclogist n some previous doctors also convinced me to believe dat it is impossible for me to conceive easily.Though me n my husband both were not prepared for dis life changing part of our life dis early.coz our first anniversary is not celebrated yet. But both of us are Alhamdulillah positive in dis matter.Coz Who we are to Deny Almighty’s blessings??

Out of responsibility n considering Allah’s blessing I’m okay with dis decision of carrying dis fetus with me.coz dis cud be my first n last also. But deep inside I feel like I’m not prepared mentally.

specially when I got to know after trying for 2.6yrs I got a perfect job for me.Which is suitable for me in every way. 

I’ve consulted with my gynoclogist n said its okay to do regular work but avoid jerky movements n rickshaw. my home is at kalabagan n the office was near city clg.Alhamdulillah My in-laws have 2 cars of their own.So it was not dat much difficult to work outside. But my husband n in-laws didn’t let me to join due to my pregnancy.

Now its hard to me to accept that I even cannot take my own life decisions. And if I could join maybe I could secure the job.but I dnt knw when it will be possible to be self dependent again after delivery.

I feel like worthless,alone,dependant.literally can’t make anyone understand abt how I’m feeling every second.Dont know how to deal with this situation.Just praying to Allah to give me more patience, courage n strength .Convincing myself each minutes dat definitely there is something good in it In sha Allah…

Solution by an expert

Thanks a lot for sharing your circumstances with us. I am very much happy to hear about your pregnancy. As you have said you have PCOS and it was not so easy for you to conceive, though it’s too early, it is very nice to know that you and your husband accepted it so happily and both of you are positive about this. As you said you got a perfect job for yourself, but your in-laws are not letting you to do so, I think they are concerned about you and your health since you have PCOS. Maybe they do not want to take any risks associated with you and your to-be-born baby. I understand your situation dear. If you can set your priorities, you can feel a bit relieved in my opinion. Stay positive, the way you are. Best wishes for you and your to-be-born baby.